In our life, we are facing many things which can not be discerned as right or wrong. What would be your goal in your life? Would you be happy and satisfied to yourself if you acheive top position in your company? Money and your position could make you feel good while some has different views regarding it. General means just general, which means there are always exception. Moreover,if you say gerenally and traditionally you do someting, it couldn't be accepted by someone. Depending on your background, circumstance, relationship, emotional feeling, answer could always be changed. That's why it is so complicated to discern what is right or wrong.